That will most likely be the deal breaker for her. Don't wait for it to eventually fall apart or hope that she will change. This brings me to the thorniest bit: If your wife is Mormon, your kids will be expected to be Mormon. This spotty attention from him makes me sure I want to end things sometime. What advice do you have for a newbie. Only the racist comments about why it was enacted have been disavowed. I got the news that my mother suddenly died when I was with him.
Fist year wasn't easy as he didn't match, I moved across the states and our honeymoon consisted of moving. In my home ward, the non-member son of one of the members of the Bishopbric was able to stand up with the Priesthood and hold his baby girl while they gave her baby blessing. I know that when we have children I will be doing most of the work. I knew this bothered me, but it wasn't until I read this section that it hit much how much it bothered me and how alone I feel. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome.
That said, there are also a lot of pricks inside the church, who fully deserve membership. I don't know if living vicariously through him will be enough. Their job is HARD. IMO he should've been up-front about that before beginning to date you, but, sounds like you're okay with it now that everything's clear. Ask her if her parents buy their underwear from a bookstore. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. She's likely openly telling her family that it's okay he's not Mormon because she's going to get him baptized. The Mormon youth must not date before Aside from that, the Church also discourages them from getting into a serious relationship before they consider getting married.
Several of the apostles have grown up in part member homes. Typical American girls have the government to make them feel secure. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. I too married for love but there's no emotional energy, support or empathy left for the darling wife. What a fascinating response as always.
