Giving a blow job can be a hugely sexy experience. Feeling someone get turned on and watching them get closer and closer to losing it is a powerful and, for lack of a better word, heady experience. However, plenty among us are not that into BJs, which is also completely fine. For the BJ-averse or anyone looking to give it another shot, really , here are some positions that do something for you while you're toiling Down Under. Everybody's a winner! Except the person who has to wash the sheets. Use the power of physics and prop a largish vibrator between a mattress and box springs or the cushion and frame of a soft couch or chair. The toy will tend to you thrusting against it is sexy too and you'll have your hands free to add to that glorious on-your-knees BJ you're giving. If you're a humper, prop a pillow between your legs, slip a lubed hand down between your legs and slide back and forth over it as you suck on him.

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Giving head is becoming a chore! What can I do to…speed up the process? It also sounds like you enjoy going down on your partner, which most men agree is crazy sexy. However, there are still plenty of cool tricks to enhance a BJ for both of you. Some men just have a harder time reaching climax through foreplay and oral only, so this likely has nothing to do with your performance. Also, ask yourself if you really need to bring your boyfriend to orgasm every time you go down on him. Is climax the defining factor of successful blow job? Or could you both enjoy a delicious round of oral followed by some hot, climatic intercourse instead? Of course, there are those times when a girl just really, really, really wants her man to enjoy a total, beginning-to-end, perfect blow job… without breaking her jaw in order to do it. You mentioned that you enjoy going down on your guy, but does he know how much you love it?
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Everything must be consensual between both partners. This guide is simply for those who are beginners in the BJ department or are wanting to learn to enjoy yourself while pleasing your man. Hey there! But first, let me give you some background info about me. My man and I woman, here have been together for 7. Did I always love giving blowjobs? Did I even know how to give a blowjob? Heck no. Was the first BJ awkward?