Its fascinating that in so many women are defining themselves by their MD husbands like we are in s season from Mad Men. At best they just try to include you in the community, and at worst you are constantly told that you'll be welcome "when you're ready. Ask her right out if she is at all interested in leaving TSCC. Mormon chicks have way damaged views on human intimacy.
Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love. They have money for nannies, trips, vacation homes, their children go to the finest colleges, etc. It's almost like I feel as though I have to watch what I say at all times especially when he has residents calling him for various things, might be on call that night, and has to be at the OR by 5: When I myself was interning in my profession, the girl I interned with had married her boyfriend who is also a specialist earlier that year. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. Yet others are really great human beings. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. That's another 15 for me. We just moved in together and I am very afraid of his ocd ways and heavy opinions. It's just that on days I'm working, I can't do that.
Ask her on dates. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise. He did however, have the night shift and then had research to do today. If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies. Be prepared to experience many disappointments, such as missed events, delayed arrivals and early departures due to patient needs. He is still in residency. You will buy expensive disability insurance, malpractice insurance, and life insurance to provide a snippet of comfort for the great, unknowable future.
I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly. I was not moving with him until there was a promise and it would still take me a few months to find a job and relocate. When he comes home he's so exhausted and just wants to veg out and this leaves me alone again.
